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Monday, January 4, 2010

Questioning the People. Are the modern people live in a sense of caring?


*My nauseated upon the people's behavior (mostly in Jakarta) who always underestimating the others and saying 'alay' for their own pleasure or maybe it could be as a sign of 'conquering' above anyone else for them to make a 'divided world' (how rude it is?!). Well, i am not trying to be offensive to judge it at all. But i am just trying to describe how the youth society/adolescence egos 'overwhelm' until it goes into the 'Popular Culture' (much of negative meaning on this). Ya, the culture that follow your back everyday, every step you take, without much awareness, it infiltrate within your mind and give a lots of negative sensation all day.

Some people proud of what They got, what They buy,
How They come to the groups, and how They acted.
Underestimating and humiliating the others are 'normal' things to do.
Well, is this looks fair? is it the purpose of life?
Does everyone just belong to a small groups and narrow meanings of interests?
Are people become 'blind' to see a widespread society which are real exist and diverse?
You say 'this way was okay. who cares'.
But I say' it's not okay anyway. You must see there's lot of point of view out there'
You say 'I got what I want. I have all on myself and my "gang" was my perfection.'
'I reflected every morning and yea I looked great.'
'I will keep my distance to Them who don't have sense of fashion and style enough'
'They look like a strangers for me (actually, You're the real stranger)'
'Stay away from my sight, you seem won't fit for me'
Well, I say 'Stop judging the others. What was the worth of doing that?'
'Everything will be okay if You try to take a brake on your mouth'
'Please shut up, take your minute for awhile."
"Make all things clear and find some peace within Your mind"
..nothing's worth for being too much dazzling in, all You need is a better understanding'
'Test your sense of sensitivity..we can make it together'
'the respect is something You will earn, if You have faith'

It is interesting when i found the words from one of blogger who believe in punk attitude, how he made a comment about condition of nowadays society. he said: " It is a shame to think, that people are becoming a mass collection of stereotypes. It's all about 'fitting with the same "style" to be accepted by the groups' ("the style" what i mean is not to stressed on fashion but in a lifestyle, how you acted, how you think, how you run your life)". Where's Your identity, then?

Hargailah Perbedaan. Jangan terlalu banyak (sibuk) menilai orang. Berpikir konstruktif apabila melihat sesuatu, jangan berpikir 'gampang' dan mencampakkan apa yang seharusnya dipikirkan. Latih perasaan kepedulian dan empati anda terhadap kondisi yang dialami orang lain, misalnya ketika kita melihat sekolah-sekolah yang 'berstandar rendah' (minim fasilitas pendidikan dan tenaga pengajar) di kanan kiri kita di Jakarta. Melihat fakta tersebut kita bukannya untuk mencela keadaan, pergaulan, dan kekurangan mereka, TETAPI cobalah berpikir mengapa mereka bisa sekolah dengan standar rendah sedangkan kita bisa menikmati yang berstandar tinggi? apakah anda tidak berpikir untuk menyamaratakan standar mereka agar kondisi masyarakat tidak timpang lagi sehingga dengan itu kita bisa menikmati indahnya keadilan dalam bermasyarakat? alhasil, tidak ada kesenjangan pergaulan, tidak ada penghinaan terhadap standar kehidpuan yang lebih rendah tapi justru saling melengkapi, membuat harmoni dalam masyarakat. Yang mampu berbagi dengan yang tidak mampu.. Jadi sangat disayangkan apabila anda justru mencela keadaan sekolah berstandar rendah, itu sama saja anda mengabaikan rasa kepekaan nurani anda, dan nantinya akan terakumulasi menjadi sifat angkuh.. Come on people, ripped off all your superiority feelings..you can solve it for yourself..the power of your mind and conscience are always waiting inside..

Be yourself, not to be scared of what people or 'Popular Culture' said..because they might be wrong. And, I want to stress to the point: Believe that you have your own sight and own values. Believe that you had a 'self-control'. Well, sorry if I am too much preaching and arguing..I just want to share my arguments cause i have my own sight and i think it's worth to share. So, it's important to you (me too) must have 'sense of thinking' if you are normal enough as a human being so that your thoughts not to be rotten and forgotten. Peace out! Start a revolution in yourself..